In the early stage of a blind date, after the basic exchange of information is completed, it is time to enter the chat session to enhance mutual understanding. So what topics can be discussed during a blind date to better promote mutual understanding?
What topics can better promote mutual understanding during a blind date chat?
1. Hobbies
When chatting with a blind date, be sure to start with a relaxed and pleasant topic. Don’t talk about conditions and mate selection criteria right from the start. This will make the interactive atmosphere serious, rigid and lifeless.
Through topics of interest and hobbies, you can get to know each other better, find more common topics, display appropriately, and convey a lot of attraction and your personal shining points. Talk about hobbies and interests, let girls see your love and passion, and make girls feel that you are a positive person, which will gain a lot of points in the eyes of girls.
What do you like to do in your spare time, what are you obsessed with, what make you passionate, and what make you enjoy life.
2. Childhood past
Everyone has their own childhood past and feelings. Talking about childhood topics is the easiest way to open up each other’s hearts. The world of adults is complex, but the world of children is simple. This helps to take off each other's defensiveness and allow for deeper communication.
Talking about childhood topics can unconsciously shorten the distance between the two parties and increase their goodwill.
The dreams of youth, the love of youth, feelings about family and friends, interesting things in childhood, etc.
3. Growth experience
Everyone has their own unique growth experience and unique past, especially It is the story of transformation you have experienced, the hardships you have endured, and the people you have met, which can show girls your unique personality charm in a three-dimensional way.
Sharing growth experiences is similar to taking a girl to watch a movie, except that the protagonist of the movie is yourself. By feeling your ups and downs, growth and setbacks, hope and despair, you can make girls deeply obsessed with you and attracted by your personality charm.
4. Future plans
If you have more experience than girls, talking about future plans can quickly get closer to the girl's favorability. Talking about your own life plans can show your good personality. If you give a girl some advice about her future and tell her your own opinions and feelings, you can immediately gain points in the girl's eyes.
Through future planning, you can also feel whether the two people's views are similar and whether their life attitudes are integrated.
5. Books and movies
Books and movies can best convey a person’s feelingsInner cultivation, education level, character outlook, etc. A girl who likes adventure themes may be more eager to experience the prosperity of the world; a girl who likes mystery novels may be more rational and dislike excitement.
Books and movies are deeper hobbies. If you can reach a resonance with a girl, the relationship between the two parties can add a lot of points.
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