Have you ever thought that you have a lot of love talk with your buddies, but you can’t hold back any nonsense when chatting with girls, and you can only keep asking? This is basically the case for novices. I didn’t know what to say at first. I had a lot of thoughts in my heart, but I didn’t know how to say them and I didn’t dare to say them. I'm afraid of messing up and leaving a bad impression on girls, so in the end I can only do it hastily. Let me share with you what topics to talk about when chatting with girls are not boring? Correction from two aspects.
I found that guys who can’t chat with girls usually either have a bad mentality or they don’t know the key words when chatting. Here are the explanations one by one:
1. When chatting with girls, you must have a correct attitude.
I found that most of the brothers who have an incorrect attitude have three reasons:
1. The most common one is the "Sign of Destiny". I often take the initiative to add goddess filters to the girls I like. She is the most gentle and beautiful girl in the world. She is the most beloved girl in my world. Her quality of life has something to do with me. I don't want to see her sad. If I make her sad, I will be a sinner forever.
I failed many times before I realized that whether a girl chooses to be with you or not depends on feelings, and feelings are determined by attraction and comfort of getting along. It's useless for you to help her arrange everything and act like a caring nanny. She has no feelings for you and wants to pursue excitement and love. What can you do?
In today’s society, her parents will be kind to her, and her best friends will be kind to her. If you only give without thinking, it won’t be your turn. People will only fall in love with someone who can make them feel emotional.
2. Most people worry about gains and losses because "the resources of the opposite sex are scarce."
Things are rare and valuable. The fewer female friends you have, the more afraid you are of screwing up, and the more afraid you become to speak, which in turn will cause her to think you are stupid and not want to continue to get along with you, creating a vicious cycle. If I were you, I would choose to move forward boldly and play with social software. Since you can’t see me anyway, I would just exercise.
3. There is another mentality that is easy to collapse because "you don't get along with girls too much."
Because of the difference in thinking between men and women, boys tend to think more perceptually, while girls tend to think more perceptually. She may not be interested in what you are interested in, and if you don’t get along well with others and your intuition can’t keep up, you will see her reaction deteriorate. , started to panic and showed more topics that she was not interested in.
Leaving the impression of a boring man, she begins to resist chatting with you. Even if you say something interesting, she still chooses to turn a blind eye, which is also one of the reasons for the silence. It's not that you can't chat well, it's that she doesn't want to chat well with you.
2. When chatting with girls, you must know the key words
The meaning of chatting is the transmission of information. A good story comes from the plot, the plot comes from the jokes, the jokes come from the sentences, the sentences come fromKeywords. In other words, you can try to break down the keywords. The more keywords she says, the more interested she is in this aspect.
For example, if she likes to share food with you and often shares food in her circle of friends, you can definitely talk more about food with her. People will only open topics and people they are interested in and are willing to go deeper into the topic. Commonly used and easy-to-use chat contents are horoscopes, food, travel, fashion, gossip, and photography. Generally, you can’t go wrong talking about these topics with girls.
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