I recently received a request for help from a fan, saying that she is relatively cold when chatting with a girl on WeChat and doesn’t know what to do. In response to this problem, I believe many friends have encountered it, so today we will do it together Discuss the reason why a girl is relatively cold when chatting with her on WeChat?
In fact, in my opinion, the reason why you are cold in chatting is that the content of your chat is not of any interest to girls, or you are This person is of little interest to her, so she becomes cold or does not reply. So what should we do in the face of this situation? The editor is here to give you some advice, let’s take a look at how to make chatting enjoyable!
1. Concentrate
If you are still thinking about other things or scrolling through your phone while chatting, it will be difficult to create such an insincere atmosphere. Be completely immersed in the chat so that the other person has no interest in continuing to communicate with you.
When the other person is a confiding type, you should think more about the other person instead of saying perfunctorily that this matter will pass. Instead, actively think of solutions, or you can retell your own experience, maybe the other person will be able to help.
2. Don’t pretend to be public knowledge
There is a lot of public knowledge recently, but when chatting with others, you must have a learning attitude, rather than asking you to instruct the other person on what to do. .
To become more harmonious in communicating with strangers, you need to throw out questions and try to let the other person answer them. In the process of raising questions, give appropriate responses to the other party's answers, and do not poison the other party's topic.
3. Don’t forget to praise
For anyone, if you praise her, it will make the other person feel Happy. But the compliments you give to the other party must be sincere and don't be perfunctory, otherwise it will be ugly.
4. How to deal with cold spots
It’s easy to be cold when talking to anyone, but don’t be embarrassed. Just express yourself with your sincere opinions and honest feelings.
5. Enough is enough.
Of course, our humor must be moderate, otherwise it will be counterproductive and good intentions will turn into bad things.
Have you learned all the above 5 points? Believe me, chatting will be much more enjoyable if you use such techniques. If you don’t believe it, you can try it.
