The development of mobile phones and the Internet has brought access to more people. There are more and more chat platforms. No longer limited to ordinary chatting and making friends. The more you chat, the deeper your desire for intimate contact will be. The greater the relationship, the more both parties hope that the relationship between the two people will not be limited to online chatting. Instead, they will often choose to meet each other when they can get to know each other better. Many people will choose a meal as a means to further develop a relationship, but it is often not satisfactory. The situation after the meeting was not satisfactory. The atmosphere was romantic, the topics were humorous, and the conversation was lively. On the contrary, it is more likely to develop into awkward chats at the dinner table, which not only affects the already weak relationship between the two, but also creates an invisible obstacle to the further development of the relationship between the two, and language becomes an insurmountable gap.
How to choose a date location when meeting for the first time
1. It varies from person to person
According to the situation analysis I learned in the online chat, if TA often shares the shops she explores every day, then the two of them can choose a shop with a novel style to sit down and communicate; if TA understands their life problems and personality better, they can bring She goes to some relatively healing places: wetland parks, etc.; people of different cultures can go to smaller, distinctive shops accordingly.
2. Varies depending on the appointment time
Short-term meetings, the time is controlled within one day, suitable for a relatively peaceful meeting style. If you pursue stability, you can prepare some small surprises, but it is not suitable For a big trip, you usually choose to go to some small attractions or coffee shops to chat; if you are traveling together for a short distance, you can arrange more activities to increase the fun of the trip, such as participating in some small local activities to increase the sense of experience.
3. Depends on the actual situation
It is often suitable for shopping malls, amusement parks, concerts, queues and other rich activities. Then choose a time to eat or when two people have new ideas to implement together. It requires the cooperation of two people and cannot be indifferent.
What should you pay attention to when meeting for a meal for the first time
1. Time issues
Don’t be vague about the specific meal time and time, which will cause two people to The embarrassing phenomenon of waiting for each other and missing each other. When making an appointment, it is best for both parties to have no other arrangements. Don't be too busy between things, leave enough buffer time, and don't just arrange meals without other more activities to enrich the first meeting between two people. Don't rashly choose a time when emergencies are likely to occur. There are no other things to disturb, so two people can focus on each other and understand each other.
2. Location
Try to choose a lively place, take a walk to digest food after meals, and avoid Meeting in some alleys or side streets can easily create a sense of insecurity and make people feel uncomfortable. other sideNervous and unable to let go, communication is often not in-depth or even perfunctory. If you choose a place with a lively crowd, it will often be more cozy, and you can even see some ongoing activities, which enriches the content of the meeting, makes the date more interesting, and can also make up for one party's lack of restraint and lack of expression.
3. Dressing issues
If you don’t know what the other person likes, you can dress simply and casually to avoid matching mistakes. If you have learned some preferences in previous online chats and can accept them, then in order to increase your favorability, you can also match them well and leave a first impression that can attract them. With the most basic favorability, seeing a style you like is like meeting a close friend, and you will naturally take the initiative to chat and communicate.
In addition to restaurants, what other places can you choose for a first date?
1. Attractions and amusement parks
For people who love sports, are open-minded, and have a lively personality For example, you can choose some sports venues and use some help to reduce the gap between two people during exercise. In the game, the relationship between two people can quickly heat up. Usually suitable for dates who spend a long time outdoors and have relatively free time at work.
2. Cafe
If you don’t know the other person’s taste, it’s best not to book a restaurant hastily. Likes, pay attention to each other's tastes, and then book a suitable restaurant to avoid unnatural conversations at the dinner table because the dishes are not to your liking. A suitable date is an office worker who is short on time and relatively restrained.
3. Cinemas and theaters
If you have plenty of time and the same cultural hobbies, you can have fewer choices. If you have a classic temperament and usually communicate more spiritually, you can try asking her to go to some unusual places. It can further enhance the spiritual communication between the two people and create a certain tacit understanding invisibly.
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