Most people will only do what they are sure of. How long does it take for a man and a woman to have a blind date to determine the best relationship? If you've been on a blind date for more than 3 months and haven't established a relationship, there's basically a problem. Because when it comes to blind dates, everyone knows that they are not here to make friends, so how can we ensure that we are successful? Below I will share with you guys’ blind date strategies, hoping it will be helpful to boys on blind dates.
1. Don’t do meaningless things
The growing environment, native family, and major media are all sending a message: boys on a blind date should not only take the initiative in chatting, but also take actions. Therefore, many men will use "offensive" strategies during blind dates. Keep sending messages, keep looking for opportunities to send gifts, and keep inviting girls to come out and communicate face to face.
Things are rare and valuable. If everyone’s pursuit methods and pursuit skills are similar, they will naturally not be able to attract girls. From a girl's perspective, everyone is pretty much the same, and you can't just pick a guy and try it out, and then change if it doesn't suit you. That is to say, when she cannot accurately judge who is a reliable man, she can only increase the screening efforts and try to measure who is reliable through other aspects, that is, common money, family, status, etc. that are beneficial to her. .
2. Learn to show your own value
If you pursue blind date girls as mentioned above , doesn’t this become a blind comparison of conditions, like a commodity, the one with the best price wins? So giving gifts, pleasing people, and chatting constantly are not the key to winning, but doing valuable things is.
What is value?
The original intention of girls using various tricks to test you is to find a man who is emotionally stable and has good living habits. There is no need to show off your appearance and money deliberately. Girls are not fools. They will know your level after just a few words. If you cannot accept it, they will not be able to continue the conversation. We can't tell girls directly that I am a cool, family-oriented, and motivated person, because no one will believe me.
You can consciously show your life. For example, if you want to show your progress, wouldn’t it be better if you share more about your work and thoughts? If you want to show that you care about your family, wouldn't it be great if you share your cooking skills? You want to show that you have good social skills. You share that your friend likes to ask you to hang out. Wouldn't it be nice to take pictures together?
Think more about how this thing makes people feel, and just show relevant ones. After pushing and pulling back and forth, the frequency of chatting becomes more and more frequent. If we push it to a higher level, we will be able to get out of singles comfortably.
In fact, the reason why girls choose blind dates is to get out of singles (except when they encounter scammers). Therefore, boys who go on blind dates only need to be appropriate If you show yourself well, you can attract girls on blind dates, and it will be natural for you to establish a relationship. Have you learned it?
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