I don’t know how everyone defines the word freshness, but there is a saying on the Internet that I very much agree with:
“Freshness” is trying different fresh experiences with the same person. , rather than doing the same thing over and over again with different people. So don't abandon her just because of the novelty. You may regret it in the end.
In many consultations, I found that there is a group of people who are proud of the number of girlfriends they have, even in order to make these numbers It's quite deliberate. When I see this series of actions, I just feel very, very childish.
You have to know that "A man's greatest ability is not how many cars he owns or how much money he has, but how many men the woman around you is willing to reject for you."
And those who lack emotional intelligence, There will always be a cycle like this: you only know how to flirt, but you don't know how to get along. After you show off some flirting skills, you are exhausted, so you rush to the next one and do it all over again. The cycle goes back and forth, and love is difficult to last.
Going here and there is just another person repeating the basic interaction. My own routines, stories, and styles are all repeated and memorized. It is like a game. I have been in the "newbie village" and cannot enter the official level. , into a learned confusion of loneliness and boredom.
High-level love is the process of acquiring unconditional "self-love and the ability to love others" in deep relationship, deep intimacy , understanding, acceptance, mature attachment and companionship. In this process, the "double quotient" (IQ and EQ) and "creativity" of both lovers will be fully opened, and they will enter a positive cycle of unconditional love flowing between each other and common mental growth. Both people can be nourished in the relationship, and in the process they continue to experience new perceptions and gains from each other's exploration. Even if we are separated, we are still grateful to each other for accompanying each other on this precious journey of life.
Those who have a large number of love experiences and a short period of time usually circulate in the "newbie village", and people will also become naive, impetuous, and anxious;
But a good and deep love is often Relationships can allow us to achieve breakthrough mental growth and feel the beauty of loving and being loved.
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