Speaking is an art, especially at this important moment when meeting the parents, we must pay special attention to what we say, because we want to leave a good impression on the girl’s parents, right? So today the editor will bring it to you Here is a guide on how to talk to the girl’s parents when you meet them for the first time. If you are still unclear, you can take a look together.
How to say the opening words when meeting the elders?
The first impression is very important, so the opening words must be sweet. You can say it simply, you can express your apology for bothering you, or you can take the opportunity to praise your elders.
For example:
Hello, uncles and aunts, my name is ××, nice to meet you.
Hello uncle and aunt, I am ××, this is a little thought for you two, I hope you like it.
Hello, uncle and aunt, I am ××. My visit to your house has caused trouble to you two elders. Please forgive me.
Hello, uncle and aunt, my name is ××. I have wanted to come to visit you and your parents for a long time, but I have been a little busy. I came to visit you as soon as I had time this week. Please forgive me, uncle and aunt.
Hello, uncle and aunt, I am ××. I have heard that my uncle and aunt are very young, but I didn’t expect them to be so young.
(Whether you call uncle, aunt or uncle, it depends on local customs)
How to face questioning from elders Answer?
Ask your parents, such as their work and health, etc.:
Principle of feedback: try to tell the truth, but express it well. Boys can make efforts to improve their family situation, and girls can Can highlight filial piety to parents.
The boy’s answer with extra points: My family background is average, so I have worked hard since I was a child. In the future, I will also make my parents and ×× live a good life.
The girl’s bonus answer: My parents are in good health and can take care of themselves. I take them on trips every year.
Ask about work, such as nature of work, income, planning, etc.:
Answer principle: tell the truth about the current situation, girls are more stable, and boys are more ambitious and have potential, but don’t be blind. Brag.
The boy’s answer with extra points: I currently earn ××, but I am working hard for a salary increase and am also developing into a department manager.
The girl’s extra points answer: I work as a XX. I’m not particularly busy and my work is quite stable. My income is enough for me to spend on myself.
The above is what the editor brings to you today how to talk to the girl’s parents when you meet her for the first time. As the Chinese New Year is approaching, there are more arrangements to meet your parents, so remember to save it in advance and keep it in your mind. This way you won’t be afraid of making mistakes. Follow me and I will continue to update other strategies for meeting my parents in the future. See you next time.
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