For boys who are dating a girl for the first time, because they have little experience, they are afraid that what they say or do will leave a bad impression on the girl they are dating. After all, boys who choose to go on a blind date actually go with high expectations. If you have a good impression of a girl, it would be a pity to miss out on a relationship because you can't chat. Let me share with you what should you talk about on your first blind date with a girl? What a pleasant chat.
1. Get to know girls
Generally speaking, when friends or relatives introduce you to a girl on a blind date, they will tell you the girl’s age, education, workplace, family and other general information. At this time, we can make a preliminary evaluation of the other party's potential and burden. Those whose growth environment is close to our own are more likely to have a common language and gain extra points. If you are basically qualified, give feedback to the introducer and exchange phone numbers (if the introducer takes the lead in meeting or even meets at home, leave it to later). If you have a phone, you basically have WeChat, so you can add each other. Then look through the friend circle of blind date girls. Take a look at what kind of soft messages she has posted in her circle of friends, so that you can prepare some related topics. If a girl's friend circle is set to be visible for three days, but she has not posted anything in the last three days, then you can chat on WeChat and ask her what she usually likes to do, that's fine too.
2. Chat in a relaxed and relaxed manner
After looking at the girl’s friend circle, the other party’s basic You should be able to feel the tone of life, and then you can start chatting (tiao) (xi). In this step, you need to find out the firepower and find the style that the girl likes. You might as well put more effort here, because girls at this stage have not defined you yet and are still in the wait-and-see stage, so it is easier to start topics and chat in a relaxed manner. , making the girl curious about you (this is also a skill, we will talk about it later) can effectively avoid the embarrassment of the first blind date. Then, don’t show nervousness during the chat, just keep talking if it’s successful, and if you’re not satisfied, just go on a blind date next time.
Finally, girls who are willing to date you on a date will value you in their hearts. If they are not particularly tomboyish, they will definitely take her. For those who don’t wear makeup to go to an appointment, the best way for a man to show his emotional intelligence at this time is to make an appointment where a girl can eat elegantly! ! Don’t do it the first time! Don’t be fooled the first time! Don’t eat noodles the first time! Even if you show your cool side and choose a seafood dinner, you can't do it if you have to finger, bite and suck it with your hands! If you are not having a meal when you are dating a girl, coffee shops/dessert shops such as Starbucks are good. If not, KFC and Maiji are also available. . . If the conversation was pleasant in the previous stage, you can directly make an appointment for dinner or even a movie.
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