Recently, I came across an interesting post online about a girl who, while in a relationship, only gave her boyfriend 5 yuan for his daily meals. My first reaction was: Is this girl on a diet? Upon closer inspection, it turned out that she was the one dieting, but she made her boyfriend go hungry as well. This move is both laughable and frustrating.
Honestly, this "princess syndrome" style of dating is quite baffling. Shouldn't a relationship be about mutual understanding and support? How did it turn into one-sided control and sacrifice? That said, while such extreme examples are rare, they do reflect some people's immaturity and selfishness in relationships.
In fact, when a girl says "we're not suitable," it often doesn't mean they are truly incompatible. Instead, it might be a test of your attitude and determination. Like the girl who only gives 5 yuan for meals, her behavior might be a hidden pursuit of security and control. She might not actually want you to go hungry but is testing your tolerance and patience towards her.
Of course, this doesn't mean you should unconditionally accept all her demands. A relationship involves two people and requires mutual effort and compromise. If you find her demands excessive or her behavior uncomfortable, it's crucial to communicate and express your feelings promptly.
Speaking of communication, I recall a comment from a netizen: "The worst in a relationship is when one party is desperately giving, and the other is completely oblivious." This statement holds a lot of truth. The giving and receiving in a relationship should be balanced. If one party is always giving unilaterally, the relationship is bound to run into problems eventually.
Therefore, when you encounter a girl who says "we're not suitable," don't give up easily. Try to understand her true thoughts and needs, and see if there are misunderstandings or communication barriers between you. If you truly like each other, through effort and communication, you can surely find a way to coexist that suits both of you.
Finally, I want to say that there are no absolute rights or wrongs in a relationship, only what is suitable and what is not. Finding someone willing to grow and face difficulties with you is what matters most. I hope everyone can find their own happiness in love.
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