Recently, while chatting with a few buddies about the topic of pursuing girls, everyone agreed that the most perplexing part is deciphering the "hmm" and "ah" responses from girls. Honestly, as someone who's been through it, I too have been baffled by these simple words. Today, I want to share my insights, hoping to help brothers who are struggling with love.
I remember once, I asked a girl I liked to watch a movie, and she replied with a "hmm." I was completely confused—was that a yes or a no? Later, I realized that when a girl says "hmm," it can have multiple layers of meaning, and the key is to consider the context and tone. Sometimes, when they say "hmm," it's not a rejection but rather an opportunity for you to continue pursuing.
I have a friend who's quite interesting. When he was pursuing a girl, she always replied with "hmm," and he thought there was no chance. It turned out later that the girl was actually waiting for him to be more proactive. As netizens say, "When a girl says 'hmm,' she's actually giving you a chance; it's up to you to seize it."
Speaking of which, I recall another case. A guy asked a girl out for dinner on WeChat, and she replied with "hmm hmm." He thought it was a brush-off and didn't follow up. Later, he found out that the girl was actually hinting, "I'm responding so positively, why aren't you setting a specific time and place?"
In fact, girls often express their interest in subtle ways. As one netizen commented, "When a girl says 'hmm,' 80% of the time she's waiting for you to take the initiative, and only 20% is genuine disinterest." So, brothers, when you encounter this situation, don't give up easily. Observe the other person's reactions more; the opportunity might be right in front of you!
Of course, not every "hmm" indicates interest. The key is to pay attention to the other person's tone and attitude. If her replies are cold or always consist of single words, then it might really be a no-go. But if it's accompanied by emojis or tone words, like "hmm~" or "hmm ne," then it suggests she has a favorable impression of you.
Finally, here's a small piece of advice: Instead of obsessing over a single "hmm," try to create more opportunities for interaction. Ask her out and see how she reacts; it's easier to gauge her true feelings that way. Remember, the most important things in pursuing a girl are sincerity and patience. Don't give up easily over a simple reply!
I hope these shares are helpful. If you've had similar experiences, feel free to share in the comments, and let's exchange stories!
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