Recently, I came across a news story that reminded me of some experiences from my high school days. A girl who was dating a classmate had indecent photos of her taken and shared in a class group chat, leading to ridicule. Such incidents are not uncommon on campus, but each time I hear about them, it leaves a bitter taste in my mouth.
I remember back then, there was a girl in my class who was dating a boy, and they had a very good relationship. One day, the girl suddenly told the boy, "I'm ignoring you," which left the boy confused, thinking he had done something wrong. In reality, the girl didn't actually dislike him; it was because she cared so much about him that she said such things. Girls often speak contrary to their true feelings, hoping the other person will understand their thoughts.
As the article mentioned, when a girl says "it's nothing," it means something is wrong, and when she says "it's okay," it means it's not okay. They often use this way to express their emotions, hoping the other person can understand their inner world. Boys often fail to grasp the true meaning behind a girl's words, leading to many misunderstandings and arguments.
Returning to the news story, the girl had indecent photos taken and shared in a class group chat, leading to ridicule. Such incidents cause immense harm to the girl, not just physically but also psychologically. Campus romance should be beautiful, but once it encounters such a scandal, it becomes complicated and painful.
The comments from netizens on this incident also resonated with me. Some said, "Campus romance should be respected, not ridiculed." Others commented, "Girls need to learn to protect themselves and not easily trust others." These comments made me realize that campus romance is not just about two people; it involves the entire campus environment and social atmosphere.
As someone who has been through it, I want to say to students currently experiencing campus romance that while love is beautiful, it"s also important to learn to protect oneself. Girls should learn to express their true feelings and not always say things contrary to their hearts; boys should learn to listen and understand, not easily misinterpreting a girl's words. Only then can campus romance be healthier and more beautiful.
Finally, I want to say that no matter what difficulties you encounter, face them bravely. Campus romance, while beautiful, is also full of challenges. I hope everyone can grow through their relationships, learn to love and be loved, and cherish every beautiful moment.
