Girls are all duplicitous. When chatting with them, you must not just interpret her meaning literally. So what does it mean when a girl says I am busy now, and how should I respond to her?
1. What does it mean when a girl says "I'm busy first"?
If a girl says "I'm busy first" "Go" and then there is no response. There are only two possibilities:
1. She is really busy and forgot about chatting with you after she was done.
2. She is not interested in you, or in other words, she is not interested in the content of your chat and does not want to chat with you anymore.
No matter which of the above possibilities is a good sign, even if she is really busy and forgets about chatting with you after she is busy, it can only prove that you are interested in her. It's not important. In this case, we can ask the girl later if she is finished. Don't keep asking, as it can easily cause resentment.
Of course, we can also take precautions and use some reply methods to kill these two possibilities in advance, so that she can continue chatting after she is done. So what should we do specifically?
2. What should I do if the girl says I am busy first?
1. "Then you should be busy first, I will wait for you to come back"
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When a girl says, "I'm busy now," you can considerately reply to her: "Then you go busy first, I'll wait for you to come back." When a woman hears this sentence, she understands that the man has received what she has sent. I was very grateful for the signal, and thinking that he was still waiting for me to come back, I would naturally do my own thing quickly, hoping to end it soon and continue chatting with you.
2. "I happen to be busy too. When I'm free later, I'll come and talk to you."
"Chat" not only shows that you are busy and demonstrates your own value, but also conveys the signal that you can continue chatting after you are done. I believe that girls will look forward to chatting after they are done.
3. "Okay, don't work too hard"
In the world of women's understanding, men reply The speed of the message is the speed of loving yourself. When a woman sends a message "I'm busy first" to a man, she actually wants to see how quickly the man replies to the message and the content of the reply. If a man replies slowly, then the woman will definitely feel uncomfortable and feel that she is not that important in the man's mind. If a man replies with only one or two words, he will feel that he is perfunctory.
Generally speaking, after seeing a message sent by a woman, a man with high emotional intelligence will immediately reply: "Okay, don't work too hard." This will make women feel very at ease and make even the most tiring work easier.Cope with ease.
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