What should I do if I can’t chat with girls- Learn these three tricks to help yo



Recently I heard a friend complain that he was stupid and couldn’t chat with girls at all, and he didn’t know what to do. I believe many of my friends have encountered this problem, so today I am here to give you some advice. Let’s take a look at this article about what to do if you can’t chat with a girl.

First, praise back when you are praised

When many people are praised, My first reaction is to say thank you, and then I don’t know how to respond to the other person. In fact, good communication is reciprocity. I praise you because you can praise me, so you praise me back.

For example, if the other person says that your clothes look really good today, you can compliment them back and say that all good-looking people say so.

Second, replace multiple-choice questions with transfer topics.

When you are faced with a dilemma, no matter what you say, it is wrong, then you will change the topic at this time, neither commenting nor answering directly.

For example, someone asks you who is more beautiful, me or XX. At this time, no matter how you answer, it will be a trap. You can say that you are both beautiful but don’t know it. I don’t even know how to express it in words. .

Following the trend, you can quickly switch to another topic, so that the other party will not make things difficult for you.

Generally, changing the topic is used when the other party asks you to make a choice. If you don’t know which one to choose, just change the topic directly.

Third, don’t belittle yourself or step on others.

When someone compares you with another person, you don’t need to answer directly who is better or mediocre, because no matter how you answer, it will create a bad impression on the other person.

You can talk about the advantages of each other, such as the other person is good-looking and you are smart, then you can say that we are the same, which will not only avoid belittling yourself, but also prevent the other person from being embarrassed.

Each of the above three methods has its own advantages. Practice more and practice makes perfect. Then you will find that chatting is not that difficult. Come on~!