Recently, while chatting with a few friends about the topic of love, we all couldn't help but lament: the dating market is becoming increasingly competitive! Especially for those of us working in the education and training industry, there are many excellent women around, but finding a suitable partner is not an easy task. Today, I want to share with you how I found true love in the education and training circle, along with some personal insights.
First of all, the education and training industry is indeed a place where "there are more women than men." Every time we have a big meeting, looking around, it's almost all women. To be honest, this is both an advantage and a challenge. The advantage is that there are many choices! There are indeed many excellent women, some with strong teaching abilities, some with outstanding management skills, and some who are particularly caring. But the challenge is that the competition is fierce! Especially for a slightly shy guy like me, it was really overwhelming at first.
I remember one time, I met a girl in the company pantry. She was discussing teaching plans with her colleagues, with clear thinking and fluent expression, exuding a confident glow. At that moment, I thought, wow, this girl is really great! But the problem was, how should I approach her? Should I just go up and start a conversation? What if she thinks I'm too abrupt? Later, I posted on a forum asking for advice. Unexpectedly, netizens gave me a lot of practical suggestions.
One netizen said, "You need to first figure out who you like, and then find out if they are single. Don't fall for everyone you see, that would seem insincere." This is quite true. Love is not like grocery shopping; you can't just pick and choose casually. You need to be clear about your feelings first, and then take action. So I started observing her and found that she not only had strong work abilities but also a gentle personality, often proactively helping colleagues. Gradually, my affection for her grew deeper.
Another netizen reminded me, "Women nowadays are very realistic; you need to improve your abilities and financial strength." Although this was a bit harsh, it's also true. Women in the education and training industry generally have decent incomes, and if you're not excellent enough, it's indeed hard to attract them. So I started working harder to improve my teaching skills and even signed up for some management training courses. Gradually, I found my status in the company improving, and even some women started chatting with me proactively.
Of course, the most important thing is to have thick skin! This was really hard for me at first. After all, I'm a relatively introverted person, and I would blush even when talking to girls. But later I realized that if I kept being so timid, I might really end up single forever. So I started trying to approach her actively, like greeting her when we met in the pantry or handing her a cup of coffee when she was working overtime. Although it was a bit awkward at first, gradually, our interactions increased, and our relationship grew closer.
Finally, I want to say that finding a partner must be about finding someone who shares the same values. The most important thing when two people are together is not the external conditions, but whether they feel comfortable together. That's how it is with her and me now. Although work is busy, every time we meet, we feel very happy, and we have a lot of resonance when talking about work. This feeling is really wonderful, as if I've found a partner to strive and grow with together.
In conclusion, taking the initiative in love is really important. Especially in an environment like the education and training circle where there are more women than men, if you don't take the initiative, you might really miss many opportunities. Of course, the premise is that you need to improve yourself first, to become excellent enough. Only then can you attract an equally excellent her.
Alright, that's all for today's sharing. If you also work in the education and training circle, or if there are many excellent women around you, you might as well try my methods. Remember, love is not something you wait for, but something you strive for. Keep it up!
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