As a guy who once considered himself poor with words, I deeply understand the awkwardness of not knowing what to say in front of someone you like. Every time I wanted to flirt, my mind was full of things to say, but when I opened my mouth, it all came out as "Um... Ah... That...". But you know what? Being poor with words is not the issue at all; the key is to find a way that suits you.
I remember one time, a girl I liked told me, "I'm going to sleep," and I was stunned for a while, finally blurting out, "Oh, good night." As you can imagine, the conversation ended right there. Later, I got smarter and started researching how to respond in a high EQ way. For example, now I would say, "Go to sleep soon, and remember to come find me in your dreams~" or "Good night, hope your dreams are full of delicious food!" These slightly humorous replies don't come off as too greasy and let the other person feel your care.
Speaking of which, I recall a comment from a netizen who said, "I used to think that sweet talk was necessary to win over a girl, but later I realized that sincerity and humor are what really matter." That's so true! Girls don't really need you to be a smooth talker; they care more about your attitude and thoughtfulness. For instance, when she shares little things about her life, you don't need to rush into a long speech. A simple "That sounds interesting, take me to see it next time" can make her feel your interest.
Another very important point is action. When I was pursuing a girl, I would quietly note down everything she mentioned she liked. Once, she casually mentioned she liked the cakes from a certain shop, and the next day I bought some and delivered them to her office. She was really surprised and later told me that such small details touched her more than any sweet talk. So, being poor with words really doesn"t matter; the key is to prove your feelings through actions.
Of course, a sense of humor is also a plus. For example, when she complains about being tired from work, you could say, "Looks like you need a personal masseur, and I happen to be free. Want to give it a try?" This light-hearted tone can ease her mood and make the conversation more interesting. However, be careful to keep the humor appropriate, so it doesn't come off as just joking.
Finally, I want to say that love is not a battle of words but a collision of hearts. If you"re poor with words, you can still touch someone with sincerity, humor, and actions. As another netizen said, "The most important thing in love is sincerity; everything else is just the icing on the cake." So, don't worry about not being able to sweet talk; love with your heart, and someone will understand you.
I hope these little tips can help you, and I welcome everyone to share their flirting experiences in the comments. Let"s improve together!
