Recently, while chatting with my close friends about the topic of love, I realized that many women feel quite conflicted in their relationships. For instance, one of my friends mentioned that a guy has been pursuing her lately, but she's unsure how to respond. This reminded me of a video I watched earlier, which suggested that when a woman says "someone is pursuing me," there are many underlying messages. It could be a way to test your reaction or perhaps to make you feel a bit jealous.
Honestly, I've been in similar situations before. I remember once casually mentioning to my boyfriend, "A colleague has been asking me out to dinner a lot recently," just to see his reaction. He calmly responded, "That just shows how charming you are, but I trust your judgment." At that moment, I thought, wow, that was such a high EQ response!
When it comes to dating skills, I believe the most important thing is to remain genuine. Some women like to play hard to get, intentionally ignoring the other person, but I think this can easily strain the relationship. Like another friend of mine, she would often deliberately not reply to messages, leading the other person to think she wasn't interested, and eventually, he gave up. She regretted it immensely later, saying she wished she hadn't acted that way.
Another crucial point I think is not to date just for the sake of dating. I've seen too many women who, out of loneliness or societal pressure, end up with someone unsuitable. They later find out they're not compatible in values, leading to a painful breakup. As one netizen aptly put it, "Better to be single than to settle." This statement really hits home.
Speaking of netizen comments, I particularly liked one sharing: "Dating is like dancing; you need to know when to step forward and when to step back." Indeed, being too proactive or too passive in a relationship isn't ideal; the key is to find that balance. For example, during dates, it's good to express interest appropriately but also to give the other person some space.
Lastly, I want to say that there's no standard answer in love. Everyone has their own way of interacting, and what's important is finding a rhythm that suits you. Like in my current relationship, although we occasionally argue, we're both willing to change for each other, and that's the best state we can be in.
In conclusion, love is something that requires both careful nurturing and letting things flow naturally. I hope every woman can meet the right person and enjoy a sweet romance!
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