As a single person, when chatting with a girl, we must have the purpose of inviting her and upgrading the relationship. So how should we flirt with the girl and chat to get the girl interested, so as to achieve the purpose of asking her out?<br/ >
1. Learn to extend and switch topics
The basis of chatting is topic. Chatting with girls, Topics are carriers, but many boys do not control this carrier well when flirting with girls. They do not know how to extend and switch topics, or expand the carrier, resulting in frequent awkward conversations and cold moments. So how to extend and change the topic when chatting with a girl?
1. How to extend the topic
Here is an example of a commonly used topic "movie": < /p>
“The recent epidemic has been like a movie about losing money. Having said that, it’s been a long time since I went to the theater to watch a movie.”
With such a sentence, we will provide it for girls There are many topic choices, such as the epidemic, theaters, and zombie movies.
If the girl seizes the topic of the epidemic, we can continue to say:
"We don’t know when the epidemic will end. By the way, do you still have the masks? I have collected them. Quite a few.”
If a girl catches the topic of cinema, she can say:
"Watching a movie in a cinema and watching it on a mobile phone are completely different feelings. Last time I went to a private cinema with my friends to watch it. , it feels super great.”
Share your feelings with girls, especially those that can resonate emotionally with girls, which can build a sense of identity and bring you closer to the girl.
If a girl talks to you about zombie movies, she can say:
"I didn’t expect you, a little girl, to like watching zombie movies. I’m so tired of it."
Show your appreciation to the girl, and then say: "I also really like zombie movies. If this happens, let's team up to fight zombies and take you flying."
Expressing appreciation for a girl is actually building a sense of identity and establishing a connection with the girl, and then creating a scene for the girl to fight zombies with her to establish interesting interactions with the girl, thereby To achieve the effect of teasing her.
2. How to switch topics
When chatting with a girl, I feel that a topic has almost been discussed. , then we will take the initiative to switch topics to avoid the subsequent chatting from becoming awkward and cold.
For example:
Male: After talking about movies for so long, I’m hungry
Female: Okay
Male: Maybe Little fairies all grew up drinking dew, right (to make girls happy)
Female: Haha
Male: It’s hard to decide between hamburgers, fried chicken and hot pot (explain your status and start a new topic)
Female: What to eat really makes a difference Big head
Male: Only children make choices, adults have to (express their feelings and guide resonance)
Female: Hahaha
Male: You Is there anything you particularly like to eat (ask girls for personal information and get closer)
The switching of topics must be natural, rather than switching directly from one topic to another. Switching between topics is the best. It's relevant, so that you can have a better chat with girls.
2. Guided chatting method
A girl’s mood is as changeable as the weather, we can’t I expect her to be in a good mood every day, so it's normal for her to be cold occasionally when chatting with her. And even if she has a cold attitude, as long as we chat in the right way, we can still make her enthusiastic again.
For example:
Post a photo that can show your value, such as a photo of driving, a photo of a high-end hotel, a photo of exquisite food, and then start the topic (here, post a photo of driving) (Photos as an example)
Male: The road is so congested today, I feel like I’m going to fall asleep
Female: There are indeed a lot of cars in the morning
Male: Today I have a meeting early, but it seems I can’t make it, and I haven’t had time to eat breakfast. I really feel sorry for myself
Female: Haha
This kind of guidance is to show one’s own value. Let the girl feel that you are a valuable person worth getting to know, so that even if she doesn't know you well at first, after she has this concept, she will try to get to know you and become more proactive.
Wait until the girl is willing to chat with you, and then use chatting to improve her liking for you. When your good feelings reach a certain level, you can try vague invitations and direct invitations to ask her out.
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