How to avoid question-and-answer conversations when chatting with girls-



I don’t know how to chat with girls. Chatting all the time turns into checking household registration, which makes the chat enter a question-and-answer mode. As time goes by, girls become more and more indifferent. So how can you avoid a question-and-answer conversation when chatting with girls?

Boys think more rationally and like to ask questions and then solve them; but girls are more emotional and want to share their feelings. Therefore, girls will feel very heavy during the question and answer process, so they do not want to continue chatting.

Error demonstration:

Example:

Me: Have you eaten? (Raise a topic)

The other party: Eat

Me: What are you doing? (Raise a topic again)

The other party: Go online

Me: How is your weather? (Raising another topic)

The other person: It’s okay

Me: Have you been busy lately? (Raising another topic)

The other party: Not busy

Me: ... (There is no topic to talk about, because the topic will always be finished)

Me: Oh, that’s it. I just want to call and ask you what you are doing, then you can continue to work, bye

MM: Bye

The best way to avoid question-and-answer chats is not to ask, because you ask questions , the other party’s answer can only be “yes” or “no”. If you can't find a topic, you can only repeat this process until the other party can't stand it anymore. So what should you do if you can’t find a topic?

1. Don’t ask questions deliberately

2. Try to use Declarative Sentence

When a boy asks a girl: "Can you give me your phone number?" the answer is usually no. If you change it to a declarative sentence: "I had a great time chatting with you, please leave your phone number and we can hang out together when we have time." Then it would be difficult for a girl to refuse.

Just like what we often see in TV dramas, when the male protagonist wants to kiss a girl, he will definitely take the initiative to kiss her instead of asking if he can kiss her.

Asking questions is a sign that you are not confident, which will make girls think you are timid and unattractive. But if you can express your love with confidence, then girls will be easily attracted to you.