The weather has turned cold recently. In this weather, some girls are prone to catching colds. If a girl takes the initiative to tell you that she has a cold, it is time for you to embody the attributes of a warm man. Then the girl who said she has a cold is a boy. How should you answer?
Most boys answer with rational thinking and perspective when a girl takes the initiative to tell them that they have a cold. , for example:
Why did you catch a cold? Have you taken any medicine? You can take some cold medicine, which is very effective.
Why are you so careless? Didn’t I tell you to wear more clothes?
From now on, you should check the weather forecast before going out every day, do you know?
Such a reply is equivalent to Treating the girl's cold as a problem. Although there is no problem with such a reply, it is not the answer the girl wants, and it is not heart-warming. You must know that girls are emotional, and the reply they want is not a solution, but a solution. It's your attitude towards her.
I believe that in life, when chatting with people, you will also decide what to say based on the degree of familiarity. For example, people who are very familiar with you will talk about everything, but people who are not so familiar with you will be more polite. Talk less.
Therefore, when a girl says she has a cold, we should also use perceptual thinking to decide how to warm her up based on our relationship with her. My heart’s reply:
1. I just met the girl
When I first met the girl, I usually had a normal relationship with the girl as a colleague or classmate. She said she had a cold. Show that you are uncomfortable. The girl's chat window does not give value at this time, so don't rush to show concern. It will make the girl think that you are kneeling and licking, and that you are a licker.
All you need to do is reply to her with a hint of concern: "Keep warm and take medicine."
2. Have a close relationship with the girl and like each other
At this stage, you and the girl have a certain understanding and have established attraction, so the girl says they have a cold, which means She was in an uncomfortable state, but at this time the girl's chat window had a hint: she wanted to be comforted.
At this time, you must grab the window to express your concern. For example:
Oops, why don’t you pay attention to your health? Keep warm and don’t make the cold worse.
I feel your discomfort.
I see you have a cold. It’s so uncomfortable. It’s really worrying. Have you taken any medicine?
You were fine yesterday and today. Why did you catch a cold? It must be very uncomfortable. I really feel for you. Have you taken any medicine?
Or divert the girl’s attention and change the topic.
Hug (emoticon), the cold is reallyI feel uncomfortable, and everything I eat tastes tasteless. How about I catch a cold for you from now on, and give me all your delicious food?
I used to catch colds often, so I am very familiar with colds. I took the time to tell him. Maybe you'll be fine tomorrow. At that time, remember to thank me.
In fact, there are many similar replies. As long as your reply makes a girl feel that you understand her feelings, care about her, and love her, that's the heartwarming reply she wants.
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